Loads of stuff on the web also re standard viewing distances for SD and HD, seems there is a "standard" set for viewing SD and HD and the replies above also support that the distance can be less for HD
We have a 52W5500 with a viewing distance of 3.2 metres, watch loads of Sky HD and SD plus upscaled DVD, and it is perfect, really fills your eyes with picture width and the surround sound some how seems more effective also, I guess as it is now happening off screen (as it were) so seems more discreet
Go for the biggest your viewing distance will allow, probably between 46" and 52", and enjoy