No. If you think it sounds better, that's all the system requires for it to be a success for you. To put your mind at rest, if you take even a cursory glance through the sig's of various posters on here, you'll see hundreds or even thousands of different combinations of speakers and amps. If there were 'one true way', which in my view is the latent concept you're being bugged by, then all of these people MUST be wrong to have chosen as they have. So are they? No. Like you, they're going to have chosen the kit they've got, and how it's set up, because for them that's the best way to get the sound the way they like it. They trust themselves, and so should you.
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